#NOvember

So for about 6 years now I have been complaining about the quality (really, the lack there) of guys I have been wasting (an exorbitant amount of) time on dating or generally associating myself with at the wee hours of the weekend nights.

Sick of my repetitive mistakes, a friend challenged me to give the whole "single" thing the good ol' college-try.

So, this November will become NOvember. No nothing. Just friends [like, actual platonic ones] and my hobby of baking.

I am looking forward to it.  I mean, I'm tired betting on the same losing horse. I don't even like gambling, so what's the point?  I keep saying, "I want a worth-while guy. Someone for whom I am enough. Someone who values me as a person," then I go running into the arms of the next smooth-talking guy with the capacity for sincerity and an eye-for-value of a used-car salesman.

[Shrugs] Enough is enough.  If you say you want something. First, mean it. Then, act on it.


Boom. #NOvember.